Resources
In our efforts to promote healthy marriages, healing and wholeness in our law enforcement community, we have compiled a significant number of resources. From books and seminars on marriage, to resources offering help for PTSD, suicide and domestic abuse, there is help out there for you. If you know of a resource that has helped you or someone you love that we don’t have here, please contact us so we can review and add it.
For Spouses
- Facing Evil, Scott Brown & Victoria M. Newman
- A CHiP on my Shoulder, Victoria M. Newman
- A Marriage in Progress, Victoria M. Newman
- Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement Officers, Kevin Gilmartin, PhD
- Hearts Beneath the Badge, Karen Solomon
- I Love a Cop, Ellen Kirschman, PhD
- Bullets in the Washing Machine, Melissa Littles
- Crazy Lives of Police Wives, Carolyn Whiting and Carolyn LaRoche
- Under Fire, Kristi Neace
- Lives Behind the Badge, Kristi Neace
- Standing Courageous, Kristi Neace
- The Rite of Return, Karen Lansing (PTSD)
- Cuffs & Coffee, Allison P. Uribe
- The Proverbs 31 Police Wife, Leah Everly
- His Badge, My Story, Vicki Gustafson
For Officers
- Facing Evil, Scott Brown & Victoria M. Newman
- A Marriage in Progress, Victoria M. Newman
- The Rite of Return, Karen Lansing (PTSD)
- On Combat, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman
- On Killing, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman
- Bulletproof Spirit: The First Responder’s Essential Resource for Protecting and Healing Mind and Heart, Dan Willis.
- Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement Officers, Kevin Gilmartin, PhD
- Warrior Mindset, Michael J. Asken and Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, Loren W. Christensen
- Selfish Prayer, Emmett W. Spraktes with Victoria M. Newman
- Women Warriors: Stories from Behind the Thin Blue Line, John M. Willis
- Cadet Blues, Rob Krider
- Arresting Communication, Jim Glennon
- Blue Line Baby – Chronicles of a Cop Kid, Christa Waaler-Trinchera
- The Will to Survive: A Mental and Emotional Guide for Law Enforcement Professionals and the People Who Love Them, Bobby E. Smith, PhD.
- Ruby Shoes – Surviving Prescription Drug Addiction, Michele Zumwalt
- CopShock, Allen R. Kates
- Surviving the Shadows: Bob Delaney with Dave Scheiber
- When Cops Kill, Lance LoRusso.
- Mindful Responder: The First Responder's Field Guide to Improved Resilience, Fulfillment, Presence, & Fitness--On & Off the Job, Crawford Coates
- Justice Revealed, Jim McNeff
- Surviving a Law Enforcement Career: A Guide for Cops and Those Who Love Them, Dr. Dennis L. Conroy
- Winning a Gun Fight: Securing victory ethically, mentally, and tactically in a gunfight, Tim Rupp
- Copicide: Concepts, Cases, and Controversies of Suicide, John M. Violanti, Ph.D.
- Increasing Resilience in Police and Emergency Personnel, Stephanie M. Conn
- The Will to Survive: A Mental and Emotional Guide for Law Enforcement Professionals and the People Who Love Them, Bobby E. Smith, Ph.D., Linda Sivertsen
- Visions of Courage: The Bobby Smith Story, Bobby E. Smith, Ph.D.
- Armor Your Self: How To Survive A Career In Law Enforcement: Guidance and Support for Law Enforcement Professionals and Thier Families, John Marx
For Children
- A Day at the Police Station, Richard Scarry
- Policeman’s Safety Hints (Board Book), Giovanni Caviezel
- Daddy, I Worry About You, Clarke Paris
- Police Officers on Patrol, Kersten Hamilton
- Feeling Safe with Officer Frank, Linda Mobilio-Keeling
- Cops’ Night Before Christmas, Michael Harrison and David Miles
- Officer Buckle and Gloria, Peggy Rathman
- Adventures of Hoover the FBI Dog: Hoover Travels the World, Joe Altman and Jon Chad
- Sheepdogs: Meet Our Nation's Warriors, Stephanie Rogish & Lt.Col. Dave Grossman
- Police: Hurrying! Helping! Saving!, Patricia Hubbell, Viviana Garofoli
- Let's Meet a Police Officer, Bina Bellisario and Cale Atkinson
- Police in Our School, Becky Coyle and Juanbjuan Oliver
- Keeping You Safe: A Book About Police Officers (Community Workers), Ann Owen and Eric Thomas
- Officer Dan Looks for Clues: An Introduction to Forensic Science for Kids, Daniel Anselment and Amy Anselment
- I Want to Be a Police Officer, Laura Driscoll and Catalina Echeverri
Faith Based Books for Law Enforcement
- Spiritual Survival, Cary Friedman
- Cold Case Christianity, J. Warner Wallace
- The Book of Proverbs Through the Eyes of a Cop, Charles Gilliland
- The Book of Matthew Through the Eyes of a Cop, Charles Gilliland
- The Peacekeepers, Michael Dye
- Take Up the Shield, Tony Miano
- Devotions and Prayers for Police Officers, Steve J. Voris
- The Servant Warrior, Kevin McGinnis
- The Spirit Behind Badge 145, Jim McNeff
- PTSD, A Self-Study on Re-Entry Into Life & Living, Dr. Richard K. Thomas
- Bulletproof Marriage, Adam Davis
- On Spiritual Combat, Adam Davis and Lt.Col. Dave Grossman
Non-Law Enforcement Books for Marriage
- Crucial Conversations, Kerry Patterson & Joseph Grenny
- For Men Only and For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn & Jeff Feldhahn
- The Five Love Languages, Military Edition, Gary D. Chapman & Jocelyn Green
- The Art of Dancing with Porcupines, Bob Phillips
- Daring Greatly, Brene Brown
- Leadership and Self-Deception, Arbinger Institute
- The Anatomy of Peace, Arbinger Institute
- The Anger Workbook
- Forgiving the Unforgiveable, by David Stoop (Excellent Book on Forgiveness, especially in extramarital affairs.)
Wounded Officers
- Dependence Day, Heidi Paulson.
- The Price They Pay, Karen Solomon
- Visions of Courage, Bobby E. Smith, PhD.
Good Reads for Spouses
- How2LoveOurCops.org. Resources for police families.
- National Police Wives Association. Support and assistance for families of law enforcement.
- wivesonduty.com– Faith-based encouragement for cop wives, now in 5 states
- Concerns of Police Survivors – an organization that assists families who’ve lost a family member in the line of duty.
- Police Wives of America
- Survivors of Blue Suicide
Conferences/Classes for Law Enforcement Couples
- Christian Law Enforcement Officer (CLEO) Retreat, Danforth Maine. Hosted by Living Waters Bible Camp and held every second weekend of September. Call 207-448-2310 for more information.
Training Companies for Emotional Survival & Relationships
- Concerns of Police Survivors - Traumas of Law Enforcement Training
- Warriors Rest - Critical Incident Stress Management Training (CISM) peer support training.
- Dr. Kevin Gilmartin, Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement Families Book and seminars.
- Seminars/Training by FranklinCovey: Specifically for Law Enforcement. Includes 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Speed of Trust, Nobility of Policing, and Leadership skills. Trainers are current and former law enforcement professionals.
- Dave Smith and Associates: The Winning Mind courses and workshops for law enforcement.
- Street Smart Force: Videos and resources for law enforcement officers by Dr. Joel F. Shults, retired police chief from Colorado.
Please connect with us directly for resources.
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Resource Pages:
- Survive First
- U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs – National Center for PTSD
- Badge of Life Canada
- C.O.P.S.
- Warriors Rest
- The Wounded Blue
Mobile Apps:
- U.S. Department of Veteran Affairs – National Center for PTSD – Mobile Apps
- Breathe2Relax
- Tactical Breather
- Virtual Hope Box
- Positive Activity Jackpot
- mTBI Pocket Guide
- BioZen (Biofeedback)
- CareClinic
- Stay Quit
Recommended Trauma Retreats:
- West Coast Post-trauma Retreat, California. A five-day confidential program for first responders who are overwhelmed by job stress.
- On-Site Academy, Massachusetts. A three-day confidential program for first responders and military who are suffering from effects of their job.
You are not alone
- Copline International Law Enforcement Officers' Hotline | AN OFFICER'S LIFELINE 1-800-267-5463
- Survivors of Blue Suicide
- My Life for Your Life, Clarke A. Paris.
- The Pain Behind the Badge: Books, seminars, movie all designed for Suicide Prevention for Cops.
- Heirs of Restraint Ministries: Faith-based ministry to correctional officers.
- Cop Church Chattanooga: Church for Cops, Chattanooga, Tennessee.
- Fellowship of Christian Police Officers: Helps peace officers develop a Christian mindset using biblical truths to meet their spiritual needs.
- Centurion’s Faith: Provides resources designed to encourage, strengthen and support the First Responder’s spiritual, professional, psychological and physical well-being.
- Centurion Law Enforcement Ministry: Christian law enforcement outreach, newsletter, Bible studies.
- Peace Officer Ministries: Christian law enforcement chaplaincy program.
- Covered Law Enforcement: Promoting faith and solidarity with police officers.
- Christian Police Association: Encouragement and support for Christian police officers.
- Breaching the Barricade Conference: Warrior on the Wall Ministries- Christian law enforcement conference held in Indiana followed by a law enforcement family appreciation day.
Financial Resources & Assistance
- Financial Cop - Team of wealth managers and Ramsey solution master trained financial coaches.
- Police Officers Credit Union Association
- Dave Ramsey: Books, programs, financial advice. www.daveramsey.com
- Sheep Dog Impact Assistance: Sheep Dog IA provides assistance to military, law enforcement, fire & rescue, and other emergency personnel and their families in times of need and personal hardship. They also provide assistance to communities during disasters with a volunteer relief force, and educate people on the importance of disaster preparedness and survival. www.sheepdogia.org.
- Tunnel to Towers Foundation
Events
- Special Olympics Torch Run information: http://www.specialolympics.org/Sections/Donate/Special_Olympics_Torch_Run.aspx