We Educate, Encourage and Equip
Law Enforcement Families to Thrive
Relationally, Emotionally and Spiritually.

We serve officers and their spouses/significant others, both active duty, and those who’ve been wounded in the line of duty.

Our focus is the foundations of personal life…great relationships at home and with others. This support creates positivity in the life of officers and their families, setting the tone and laying a healthy foundation that will help them to thrive on duty and off.

How 2 Love Our Cops is about learning, keeping up with the latest research, and listening to the hearts and thoughts of law enforcement families across the United States, Canada, and beyond. Where we don’t have expertise, we partner with those who do to bring the very best resources to law enforcement families. Our conferences, books, blogs, seminars, trainings, and even our fundraisers are designed to incorporate education, encouragement, and positive perspectives. It is our pursuit to continue to learn and grow in our own lives, so that we can provide the very best resources for you.

How2LoveOurCops is a 501(c)(3) organization that is dedicated to the relational, emotional and spiritual wellness of law enforcement families.

Need to talk with someone who understands? Contact our Peer Support Program


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Purchase your book box and register for the event. Book box sales close June 12th!

What began as a simple book for spouses has grown
into a wide variety of resources and goals.

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How to Support Our Officers in this Crisis*

Whatever crises our officers undergo, they need us, and they need us to be strong. Depending on the circumstances, we could be the ones who are there for them to talk out some of the emotion. But when it’s too big for us, we can come alongside and love them enough to get them the…

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Six Ways to Stay Strong as Police Families

The in-custody death of George Floyd in Minneapolis has resulted in protests in many cities throughout our nation. The weight of non-stop video, protests, riots, accusations, and social media exchanges is heavy for most, and especially for the nation’s law enforcement officers and their families. If you’ve been a part of the blue line family…

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Letter From Our Leader (aka COVID Update)

Dear Friends, The world is going through some crazy times, and we hope you are well and blessed in the midst of it. We understand it’s been a difficult few months for many, but we truly hope you are not only surviving, but thriving. Several have asked how COVID has affected How2LoveOurCops, as a lot…

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Will We Ever Go Back to Normal?

Life has changed a lot during this COVID-19 pandemic. “Shelter in Place” and “Social Distancing” have become household words. Zoom is the new hang out space. More people are homeschooling than not. Masks are the new wardrobe accessory. Personal bubbles have expanded to “six feet apart.” Crazy. Who would’ve thought? A friend of mine threw…

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