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A CHiP on My Shoulder

How 2 Love Your Cop: Creating Your Own Normal, While Married to a Cop

By Vicki Newman | December 18, 2012 | 0

Balancing Home Life and Career(s) Jenny and Tim had been married double-digit years when they had their first child. Before this time she was a dispatcher and he an officer.…

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Chp 3: Creating Your Own Normal

By Vicki Newman | December 10, 2012 | 0

“I think you have to kinda let go of the life that you thought you were gonna have when you marry an officer. I really do. I think you have…

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How 2 Love Your Cop: Chapter 2: All Roads, All Codes, All In! cont.

By Vicki Newman | December 3, 2012 | 1

Looking at being the wife of a cop as an adventure allows you to see the upside of so many events. Let me share a few of our memories over…

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Chapter 2: All Roads, All Codes, All In! cont.

By Vicki Newman | November 26, 2012 | 0

To commit to his job means choosing a good attitude when he’s at the jail late and you have to put the kids to bed by yourself. It means talking…

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Chapter 2: All Roads, All Codes, All In! cont.

By Vicki Newman | November 19, 2012 | 0

Buckle Up Are you all in? Or will you balk when hard times put you to the test? Are you willing to take courageous, proactive steps to nurture that commitment?…

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Chapter 2: All Roads, All Codes, All In! cont.

By Vicki Newman | November 14, 2012 | 0

Commit to Your Marriage Every time I visit the grocery store, I’m reminded how easily promises are made and broken in relationships. While I am putting my food items on…

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Chapter 2: All Roads, All Codes, All In!

By Vicki Newman | November 5, 2012 | 0

Get in, Sit down, Shut Up and Hang On! License plate frame, California It was Christmas Day when I realized our honeymoon was over. I hated our new apartment, I…

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Chapter One: Mr. and Mrs. Cop: What Makes Us Different, cont.

By Vicki Newman | October 29, 2012 | 0

A Battle for Your Mind It was a beautiful morning but hot. A small group of men sat in chairs, facing us from the front, their duty uniforms blending in…

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Chapter 1- Mr. & Mrs. Cop: What Makes us Different, cont.

By Vicki Newman | October 22, 2012 | 5

Stress Perhaps the biggest impact on your marriage will be the stress of your hubby’s job. There are so many pressures on policemen. There’s the hatred from criminals, office politics,…

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Chapter One – Mr. & Mrs. Cop: What Makes Us Different cont.

By Vicki Newman | October 15, 2012 | 0

Protection of Privacy When Brent and I moved to Los Angeles, we began to pay a small fee every month to keep our names out of the phonebook. Because I…

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