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Posts Tagged ‘communication’

Chp 5: Game Face-The Hero at Home

By Vicki Newman | April 1, 2013 | 0

The Hero at Home Because this book covers different aspects of law enforcement marriage, it probably seems like my entire existence revolves around the fact that he is a cop.…

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Chp 5: Game Face-Understanding his moods before and after shifts

By Vicki Newman | March 26, 2013 | 1

Before and after Shifts Many times this hypervigilance rollercoaster will begin just before he leaves for work. He’s putting on his game face. For Brent and I, the time before…

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Chp 5: Game Face, Understanding his moods

By Vicki Newman | March 18, 2013 | 0

In his book Emotional Survival for Law Enforcement Officers, Dr. Kevin Gilmartin describes the highs and lows of what he calls the hypervigilance rollercoaster. To be vigilant is to stay…

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Chp 5: Game Face: Understanding Your Cop’s Motivation

By Vicki Newman | March 11, 2013 | 0

Understanding His Motivation War is seductive. There’s something inside me that lures me to the mission. I look at what’s goin’ down and know that I have to do what…

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Ch. 4: Code Four Communication-Selfishness v. Listening to Understand

By Vicki Newman | February 25, 2013 | 0

Selfishness vs. Listen with the Desire To Understand This last communication killer is so common it’s actually part of our culture.  We’re encouraged to look out for ourselves, to be…

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Ch 4: Code Four Communication: Avoiding Unkindness

By Vicki Newman | February 18, 2013 | 0

Unkindness vs. Setting Speech Boundaries As a law enforcement family, there will always be pressures as we looked at in the first chapter. Unfortunately the easiest place to release that…

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Ch 4: Code Four Communication: Unforgiveness kills communication

By Vicki Newman | February 11, 2013 | 2

Unforgiveness vs. Keeping Short Account When our unspoken expectations are not met, it is very easy to develop resentment. We take it personally. It’s an affront! But that really isn’t…

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Ch 4: Code Four Communication: It takes time

By Vicki Newman | February 4, 2013 | 0

Go Easy; It Takes Time I once heard a couple who had been married for over forty years say, “We didn’t really get each other until we’d gotten the first…

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Ch 4: Code Four Communication – The Man-Woman Thing

By Vicki Newman | January 28, 2013 | 0

The Man-Woman Thing I like to joke that when God took a rib from Adam to make Eve, He took a whole lot more than just a bone. He also…

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Ch 4: Code Four Communication: Getting outside yourself

By Vicki Newman | January 21, 2013 | 2

They say marriages are made in heaven. But so are thunder and lightning. Clint Eastwood   Words of comfort, skillfully administered, are the oldest therapy known to man. Louis Nizer…

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